Posted on May 7, 2022
by Janna
Leave a Comment
Okay, so your abuser had a traumatic childhood. Something life-changing, perhaps horrifying, happened to them. The stuff nightmares are made of. It was out of their control. Or maybe they were, for example, raised by a detached, materialistic father and callous, dismissive mother, so… Continue Reading “Your Abuser’s Trauma is No Excuse”
Category: Abuse Against Women, Advice, Advocacy & Education, Living Your Own Life, Opinion, Personal Essay, Self Empowerment, Self ImprovementTags: abuse survivors, childhood trauma, control, coping techniques, domestic abuse, Domestic Violence, emotional abuse, gaslighting, healing, manipulation, narcissistic abuse, starting over after abuse, survivor, therapy, trauma
Posted on April 23, 2022
by Janna
Leave a Comment
I don’t have any degrees. I’ve no formal education. Oh, I had a plan for college. Took some early classes that didn’t go anywhere. Dreamed of this career or that and had a fuzzy view of the future for myself but then, simply put,… Continue Reading “No Formal Education Needed to Survive and Thrive”
Category: Abuse Against Women, Advice, Advocacy & Education, Living Your Own Life, Opinion, Personal Essay, Self Empowerment, Self ImprovementTags: abuse, college, control, dreams canceled, DV, education, empowerment, healing, post-secondary education, survival
Posted on April 6, 2022
by Janna
Leave a Comment
Those who have never experienced an abusive relationship assume that at the inception of one they would take charge and respond with empowerment immediately. “I would NEVER allow that.” But a domestic abuse truth is that its victims are groomed and conditioned from the… Continue Reading “A Note for Survivor Supporters”
Category: Abuse Against Women, Advice, Advocacy & Education, Living Your Own Life, Opinion, Personal Essay, Self Empowerment, Self ImprovementTags: conditioning, control, domestic abuse, DV, education, empowerment, healing, physical violence
Posted on February 21, 2021
by Janna
Leave a Comment
THE TRUTH BEHIND FINANCIAL ABUSE | Samantha has started seeing the patterns when it comes to money. “He spends freely on himself, like on his toys and fun stuff and trips with the guys, but if I spend money — even on household needs… Continue Reading “Why is Money So Important to My Abuser?”
Category: Abuse Against Women, Advice, Advocacy & Education, Living Your Own Life, Personality Disorders (abusive), Self EmpowermentTags: abusive relationships, allowance, control, debt, financial abuse, isolation, loans, money, narcissistic abuse, Narcissists, personal loans, power, power and control, stunted development
Posted on January 4, 2021
by Janna
Leave a Comment
MINDSET THAT LEADS TO TRUMPISM | And why I cannot accept a world where Trump reigns [As published on Medium… full essay linked below the excerpt.] As we near the end of Donald Trump’s single-term presidency, only one thing is more clear to me… Continue Reading “The Old Me Would Have Been a Trump Supporter”
Category: Abuse Against Women, Advocacy & Education, Opinion, Personal Essay, Personality Disorders (abusive), Self Empowerment, Self ImprovementTags: 45th president, brainwashing, control, critical thinking, Dr. Mary Trump, gaslighting, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic personality disorder, power, religious rhetoric, Trump, Trumpism, willful ignorance