I remember how the sight of a law enforcement officer or police car would shoot my heart into my throat. Just a reflex. Not something I thought about. It was involuntary and awful, that anxiety. …
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Guilt by Conditioning
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What Does Your Abuser Look Like?
“He was active at church. We lived at a private lake, owned waterfront property, and always had a boat and toys. He was self-employed. He was a steward and Samaritan. He had a lot of …
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The Impression Management of Abusers
Crucial info here. My thoughts about a term called “impression management” are clear after reading this article. (Written by Kaitlin Menza for NYMag.com.) It features Cedric Anderson, who abused then murdered his new wife, Karen Smith, and how …